Sunday, January 15, 2012

I've never liked it when people blame their present life based on their past life, but I've spent a lot of time thinking about this today and its really hard sometimes to not base your present from your past. Its really hard. You left me a completely broken person. You left me with so many issues with myself and I do blame that on you. because you couldn't do your job. you just couldn't. the things you yelled at me and convinced me that I am. I'll never forget the times you yelled at me calling me "a piece of shit" among the many other vulgar things you said and somehow convinced me thats all I was. but yet to come apologize later on. So today as I sit here and write all of this down I still realize there are so many parts of me that are still in repair after all those years. and its going to take time. its going to take a lot of time for me to be okay. I've seriously considered going back to counseling to maybe in hopes fix this brokeness. I told my sister the other day that I would never allow you to walk me down the isle of my wedding one day and she was shocked but I will never let the man that was supposed to "love" me give me away to that man that first loved me. because I know the love that you think you showed me is not love thats never love. ever. cause you don't do the things you did to the people you love. you just don.t this will forever break my heart. and the crazy thing is I still try so hard to be everything you need and want and try so hard to make you happy but I've finally for the last time came to realization that it will never be about me. and I will never be to blame for your life.